About Us

We are motherless mothers who found each other in the shared silence of our journeys. We established this community to offer the understanding, connection, and direction we couldn't find elsewhere.

TMM Co-Founders
Adina & Lou

Our story is one of discovery and hope—a light in the darkness of the newborn haze. In June 2024, Louise was navigating the early weeks of motherhood with her firstborn son. All without the love, attention, and nurturing tenderness of her own mother. She dropped a message on a closed Facebook group, seeking support from other mothers in a similar situation.

Adina responded, and they instantly connected, both agreeing there needed to be more accessible support, connection, and representation for motherless mothers. This marked the start of The Motherless Mothers community and charity.

At TMM, we believe every motherless mother’s story matters. We welcome women of all backgrounds, cultures, identities and experiences — whether your mother is absent through loss, estrangement, illness or other circumstances. You belong here, and your voice is valued.

Our Leadership Team

Louise Kirby-Jones

CO-FOUNDER & EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR

Lou co-leads TMM, driving the charity's growth while leading partnerships, workplace education, fundraising, communications, and volunteer development.

Adina Belloli

CO-FOUNDER & EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR

Adina co-leads TMM, driving the charity's growth while leading its clinical programmes, research, NHS partnerships and the expansion of its local and national community.

Steph Blamires

CLINICAL PARTNERSHIPS & ANTENATAL PROGRAM MANAGER

Steph leads our specialist antenatal programme and develops partnerships with healthcare professionals and NHS services to strengthen grief-aware, evidence-informed perinatal support.

Emma Clarke

COMMUNITY SUPPORT & ENGAGEMENT MANAGER

Emma leads the delivery of our online community, peer support and member engagement, ensuring every woman feels welcomed, connected and supported throughout her journey.

Laura Jameson

VOLUNTEER MANAGER

Laura leads the recruitment, training, support and wellbeing of our volunteers, ensuring they are equipped to deliver safe, compassionate and high-quality support across all TMM services.

Olivia Murphy

COMMUNITY DEVELOPMENT MANAGER

Olivia leads the growth of TMM's local communities by supporting Community Leaders, developing new locations and strengthening opportunities for meaningful in-person connection.

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COMMUNITY FUNDRAISING MANAGER

Leads TMM’s community fundraising initiatives, empowering individuals, groups, and supporters to raise funds and awareness through events, challenges, and local campaigns.

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GRANTS & TRUSTS MANAGER

Leads the identification, development, and management of grant and trust funding opportunities, helping secure income to sustain and grow TMM’s impact.

Our Counselors, Coaches & Facilitators

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Our Trustees

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Our Creatives

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