We are motherless mothers who found each other in the shared silence of our journeys. We established this community to offer the understanding, connection, and direction we couldn't find elsewhere.

Our story is one of discovery and hope—a light in the darkness of the newborn haze. In June 2024, Louise was navigating the early weeks of motherhood with her firstborn son. All without the love, attention, and nurturing tenderness of her own mother. She dropped a message on a closed Facebook group, seeking support from other mothers in a similar situation. Adina responded, and they instantly connected, both agreeing there needed to be more accessible support, connection, and representation for motherless mothers. This marked the start of The Motherless Mothers community and charity.

At TMM, we believe every motherless mother’s story matters. We welcome women of all backgrounds, cultures, identities and experiences — whether your mother is absent through loss, estrangement, illness or other circumstances. You belong here, and your voice is valued.

Our Team

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Louise Kirby-Jones

CO-FOUNDER

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Adina Belloli

CO-FOUNDER

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FOUNDING CONTRIBUTOR

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Steph Blamires

TMM MIDWIFE

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Our Volunteers

Emily Allen

Social Media, Content & Community Growth

Advocacy, Events. Flyers & Posters

COMMUNITY BUILDER*

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Helen Ochyra

Social Media, Content & Community Growth

COMMUNITY BUILDER

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Abigail Rubando

Social Media, Content & Community Growth

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Laura Benner-Hughes

Social Media, Content & Community Growth

COMMUNITY BUILDER

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Cass Periam

Social Media, Content & Community Growth

Advocacy, Events, Flyers & Posters

COMMUNITY BUILDER

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Ashton Tawton

Social Media, Content & Community Growth

Advocacy, Events, Flyers & Posters

COMMUNITY BUILDER

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Vikki Foster

Social Media, Content & Community Growth

What is a community builder?*

A part of the original team helping shape what TMM becomes—from the culture to the systems to the support.

These volunteers are not just here to help. They’re here to co-create.

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Our Counsellor

Helen Catterall

Our Trustees

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Katie Rollings

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Kate McLean

Sarah Radley

Clare Church

Our Creatives

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EDGE Creative